HELP WITH ME HAIR!! plz plz help...pro's help me too!!?

i want my hair to look like this

http://www.naturallycurly.com/images/rea...

but its just to big and puffy for it too be like that. it would look like that if it wasnt puffy in certain areas and then ok in others. can someone give a suggestion to gettin rid of the puffyness and have my hair under control, and also something that will make it lay down??

THANK YOU!! %26lt;3

HELP WITH ME HAIR!! plz plz help...pro's help me too!!?

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HELP WITH ME HAIR!! plz plz help...pro's help me too!!?

u can try gel and hair spray but i have hair like urs and i have big problems trying to wear it like u want it so i suggest trying to keep it wet and put gel and stuff